Times When Ministry Is Welcome
Signs that the time is right.
by Barry Black, Dave Gibbons, Bryan Anderson, Larry Zahn, and Linda Wurzbacher
January 1, 2004
When People Are Grieving
"How can we believe in God when a good man can be so cruelly snatched away?" a young man asked after a memorial service. "How can we have faith in a world like this?"
Prior to my appointment as U.S. Senate Chaplain, I served 27 years as a military chaplain. Too often I had to tell family members of the death of a soldier. At those moments, we must avoid glib, omniscient platitudes regarding complex issues of theology. Grieving people aren't looking for comprehensive answers; they want a connection. They want someone who understands the pain, if not the reasons for it.
At a recent service commemorating the one-year anniversary of a senator's death, I lingered afterwards. Hurting people often wait until after a service to approach, looking for the right moment to seek guidance. It was then the young man asked me his question about faith in a world like this.
"I don't know," I answered. That response often diffuses the tension a deeply wounded person feels. Then, remembering 2 Corinthians 1:3-5, I sought to connect with the man's sorrow. "I felt the same things when my mother was killed in 1987. I was ready to abandon the faith. But then I took all my angry conversations right to God."
It was better to try to guide him from opposing God to exploring God, rather than trying to convince him, in a single stroke, to believe.
"That's the most helpful thing I've heard in a long time," he said.
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